Exploring Moral Values with your child

Exploring moral values with your child is a must for all parents. Moral values teach children the
difference between right and wrong. By teaching your child key moral values, such as kindness,
honesty and respect you will help them to understand how to treat other people and they will
develop important social and communication skills for their future.
To help you explore moral values with your child, here are some great tips from an independent
school in Somerset.
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Show your child how to learn from mistakes
As a parent, it is tempting to shield children from failure, however sometimes we need to give
children the opportunity to make mistakes. Allowing your child to make mistakes will help them to
learn where they went wrong and it will also help to build resilience and confidence. If you’re comfortable with talking about it, you may wish to tell them about a time you made a mistake, how it made you feel at the time and what you learnt from it.
Set a good example for your child
The best way to set your child up with a good foundation of moral values is by setting a good
example. Children learn the most by watching their parents (whether we like it or not!), so it is crucial that you are a good role model and demonstrate good manners for your child to follow.
Teach your child how to treat others
Always encourage your child to be kind, helpful and polite to others. Teach them the well-known
quote “treat others the way you want to be treated” and explain the importance of listening to
others when they are speaking. Active listening techniques can be learnt early and will stand them in good stead for the future. Explain that it is also important to respect everyone’s opinions and
ideas, even if they are different from our own.

Give praise when your child shows good morals
Finally, give your child praise when you see them demonstrating a moral value that is important to you. Be sure to label the action so that your child can recognise the behaviour. For example, “I noticed how
kind you were to your brother today. You really cheered him up.” Or “I’m really proud that you were
honest with me about this.” This kind of positive affirmation really does highlight what good looks like and is far more powerful that when the wrong kind of behaviour is pointed out.
I hope that these 4 simple ways for exploring moral values with your child are a great starter to open conversation with your little and big ones. I would love to hear if you have any great tips or topics to add regarding discussing moral values with your children, please do let me know in the comments below.



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